My Mom, My Dad and Nat :: Family Photo, Columbus, Ohio

My Mom, My Dad and Nat :: Family Photo, Columbus, Ohio

My mom sometimes talks about how rough it was, right after my little sister Natalie was born. She tells about how she had moments of deep and difficult wondering how it could all work out, raising a baby that was so different from her other six children.

Early last week, my sister and I joked around with my mom about how crazy it would be for us all to drive to the pro-life march in Washington D.C. She was across the country visiting her family, and we were looking at two babies, five adults (two of them frantic moms), strollers, carseats and luggage, no sleeping, and one very tight car. Like we said, it'd be crazy to go.

It's not at all surprising that not even a day later, my mom got a flight changed, lost her luggage, bought back-up toiletries, and made it happen so that she and Natalie were packed and ready to drive through the night to D.C. There we were, rolling into D.C. at 4am like we always knew it would happen.

I think there's a part of the fight that my mom fought 25 years ago that's still unfinished, and it is that of echoing the same grace-filled whisper she heard, "You can do this. You were made for it. I will help you."  It's the same thing she told me when I brought my baby home.

That's why we went this year and that's why my mom took us some 10 other times growing up. It's a peaceful way of passing momentum from one mother to the next.

Of course these aren't her words, they're mine, and I'm only telling it as I observe it to be as her daughter. And while this story is mostly about my mom, there's a whole lot of my Dad and Natalie in there. Who, like a champion, drove across the city in a pinch for those back-up toiletries, texted us hourly to check on us, and made oddly useful route recommendations? My Dad, supportive as ever. And who squeezed willingly in the smallest back-row seat the whole trip, upheld her standing title as "baby-whisperer", and maintained group morale by chanting upbeat songs at any given moment? Natalie, as wonderfully herself as ever.

This is only my most recent reason for being thankful for these three people, but there are many more. Being with my Mom, Dad and Natalie makes you start to think that three's not a crowd. Three is most definitely a party.

Enjoy, 

Rachel

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Our Christmas Photos :: Family Photo, Columbus, Ohio

Our Christmas Photos :: Family Photo, Columbus, Ohio

After the holidays this year, I found myself feeling like Christmas entertained me for a minute and then dropped me like a middle school date. You know how it feels. You question the meaning of life and where all the warm, fuzzy feelings have gone.

I went into Christmas very determinately trying to avoid this sweep of post-Christmas blues. I tried to focus specifically on the Catholic liturgical calendar, which so beautifully waxes and wanes in and out of seasons of preparation and celebration. Despite my efforts, I found that I slipped again!

Don't get me wrong, we get into celebrating at the Magree house. But, I may have watched one too many Hallmark movies, ate one too many Christmas cookies, and definitely, definitely bought Edith too many gifts (...not feeling guilty about this, though. Who knew how fun it would be to buy kids presents at Christmas..!!) And when it was time for it all to end, I had a hard time letting go.

It wasn't really until I let the sound of the celebration die down that the silent and humble whisper of the everyday caught my attention. I remembered once again how good life is when it wanes back into simplicity.

So, today, I'm posting photos of my two best reminders of the goodness God gives me.

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MacKenzie + Joe :: Wedding Photo, Columbus, Ohio

MacKenzie + Joe :: Wedding Photo, Columbus, Ohio

If you would like to know more about me, this story will help. Two things: (1) I hate cleaning and (2) I like it when things are clean because I'm neurotic [internal conflict meter alarm blaring]: 

I don't like cleaning bathrooms. I really don't. My husband doesn't either. So, when it comes to that terrible, dreaded, wow-its-been-a-month moment and it's my turn, I have to gear myself up to get in there and do it.

So, this time, I went to the dollar store and bought a squeegee. Why, you ask? Well, have you ever used a squeegee? It's the most satisfying thing. The nice, straight streaks that separate the clean from the dirty. So, I knew that if I had the squeegee I could look forward to cleaning the bathroom in order to see all the clean streaks of mirror, and we have a pretty wide stretch of mirror in our 70s-built bathroom. So, it worked. The bathroom cleaning was bad, but I did it because I wanted to see the clean streaks.

Cha-ching! Behavioral therapy, people.

So, if you can't relate to this story, I'm sorry you've read it and you're probably concerned about me. Don't be. I'll drink decaf coffee and it'll even things out.

If that story reveals anything about me, the photos of this group are even more telling of their fun-loving and hearty character. It was a blast to be with them to celebrate.

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Mauro Family Photo :: Family Photo, Columbus, Ohio

Mauro Family Photo :: Family Photo, Columbus, Ohio

Alright. I'm admitting to a dweeb (see definition) moment: I'm going through a poetry phase. Yes, it's true. And, unlike my [more] insecure high-school self, I'm totally unafraid of admitting it.

Photographing all of these families this fall has renewed my awe and wonder at marriage and family. It's caused a good bit of thinking on the integral and irreplaceable role they have in society. So, without further ado, a does of poetry for this beautifully Christmas-y Tuesday:

:: SONNET 116 ::

Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds, 
Or bends with the remover to remove. 
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken; 
It is the star to every wand'ring bark, 
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken. 
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come; 
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks, 
But bears it out even to the edge of doom. 
If this be error and upon me prov'd, 
I never writ, nor no man ever lov'd.

Enjoy, 

Rachel

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Hartman Family Photo :: Family Photography, Columbus, Ohio

Hartman Family Photo  :: Family Photography, Columbus, Ohio

Two weeks ago I went to see my nieces and nephew in the play "The Distracted Scholar's Guide to Literature and Drama". It was amazing and hilarious for a couple of reasons. First, the play is super very cute and very witty. (Who doesn't want to see Frankestein and Pride and Prejudice mashed together?) Second, I was in jaw-drop mode the entire time because my nieces and nephew seemed to be 45 years old! So grown up! It was wonderful and I was in tears the whole time (part catharsis, mainly just female emotion).

Anyhow, it all happened because the family in these photos directed the play. It was wonderful! The whole time I was there the little one in the front with the amazing stare was like, "that lady took our pictures!!!" I'm glad the awe is mutual.

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